stubborness/ rebelliousness and pride

mu tou told called me at 1230. I slept le but i was glad he called back. for one moment
i tot i was dreaming. spoke to him.

He said i can be stubborn n humble at the same time. at tat pt i was like brain dead so i didnt realli reply it.

The truth is stubborness and humility can never co-exist.

Stubborn means wad?

this is from the dictionary.

1.unreasonably obstinate; obstinately unmoving: a stubborn child.
2.fixed or set in purpose or opinion; resolute: a stubborn opponent of foreign aid.
3.obstinately maintained, as a course of action: a stubborn resistance.
4.difficult to manage or suppress: a stubborn horse; a stubborn pain.
5.hard, tough, or stiff, as stone or wood; difficult to shape or work.

—Synonyms 1. contrary, intractable, refractory, unyielding, headstrong, obdurate. 2. persevering. Stubborn, dogged, obstinate, persistent imply fixity of purpose or condition and resistance to change. Stubborn and obstinate both imply resistance to advice, entreaty, remonstrance, or force; but stubborn implies more of innate quality and is the more frequently used when referring to inanimate things: stubborn disposition; stubborn difficulties. Dogged implies pertinacity and grimness in doing something, esp. in the face of discouragements: dogged determination. Persistent implies having staying or lasting qualities, resoluteness, and perseverance: persistent questioning.

stubborness and rebellious person usually thinks tat they are rite. therefore refuses to change, and if strong pride stays, even when the person noes he /she is wrong, he still insist that he/she is rite.

Stubborn pple tends to always want to win. sigh.

We all need illumination of the mind i guess. Mu tou. dun be so stubborn. lets learn k. dun reject this k. rem i told u, u gt to be open n willing.